I am sorry to say that many people have trouble with forgiveness. I have trouble understanding why? Yes, if someone beats you, of course I can understand physical harm, but words? I don’t understand and because this seems to be such a large issue I thought that I would quote someone that I respect who has written amazing thoughts on the issue. Caroline Myss
Identifying a wound does not heal the wound. Healing must include getting to the source of why we struggle with forgiveness .
Why we want to hurt others, or why we hold onto our wounds hoping to make others feel guilty.
Holding on to past wounds and negative history is more that just an emotional or psychological problem:
It drains us of the energy we need to rebuild the present in a healthy and functioning manner. ~ Carolyn Myss